To love someone means to accept his whole existence
Whatever be the reason, but every person is definitely frustrated about something or the other. There is a sense of inferiority present in him, which we call the 'inferiority complex'. This inferiority complex is a wonderful complex, which if taken in a positive way, it can populate us and if taken in a negative way, destroy it. The feeling of love plays a positive role in this.
When you love someone, it is not such a big deal, as big as the fact that someone is loving you. It is a wonderful experience. The thought that 'somebody is loving me' creates a great confidence in one's existence. It is the basic tendency of a person that in the beginning he keeps on denying his personality. Denying yourself is a product of his inferiority complex.
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This is what the great French novelist Victor Hugo said in this form that 'the greatest happiness of life is the belief that someone loves us'. The person starts feeling that 'I am also the one who can be loved.'
Loving someone, especially true love, is not a small matter. This is not a mess and no time-pass of any kind. To love someone means to accept his whole existence. And what can be better than accepting one's existence. Actually, by loving someone, we create in his mind a sense of belief and impulse towards his existence.
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As soon as this feeling comes in him, the knot of inferiority bound within him gradually opens up and finally he gets freedom from this inferiority complex. Everyone wants to get rid of the inferiority complex. That's why he wants someone to love him, so that he can be free from it. It is this desire of his that drives him to love and be loved.
LOVE STORY
Once a woman of about 40 years old asked me a very sensitive question about love. His question was 'Vijay ji, why does it happen that many people live around you, but only one of them seems to like you, although there are better people than that among the people present there?' This question of his was really shocking and was a question which I had never thought of till then.
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That's why I took some time to answer and I am putting it here in front of you, the answer I got later. Actually, the thing is that we all have the forms of our likes and dislikes present in our subconscious mind. To be honest, we ourselves do not know what our true likes and dislikes are, which we call our likes and dislikes.
It is the likes and dislikes that society has put in us. We start living this model and living it, we fall into the illusion that this is our likes and dislikes. Whereas the truth is that these are our likes and dislikes and the likes and dislikes of the society.
The subconscious mind works in such a wonderful way that its science is not easy to grasp. Whatever we may consider as our desire on the outside, but internally we all experience our own desire and this desire of ours is a very important part of our personal treasure. That's the psychology of love overall. outside like we find someone like this,
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Whoever completely matches our own desire, then a feeling of deep love for him arises in our mind. If you think about why this happened, then nothing will come of your hand. The lover will only be able to answer that 'I don't know why. All I know is that it's done.






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